1.
Heya Ella! Thank you so much
for taking the time to answer my questions and being so open! Firstly, would
you mind telling me a little bit about yourself? For example: what are your
passions and interests?
My interests are playing video
games, photography, writing, drawing and reading.
2.
Do you think that labels are
necessary when it comes to sexual orientation? Are they restrictive or do they
provide comfort and security?
I think labels can be restrictive depending on the person
really. Some people like that they can name their sexual orientation and be
able to tell others exactly and others feel freer without labelling. I label
myself because I like be able to explain to others easily what exactly my
sexuality is.
3.
When did you realise that you
weren’t heterosexual? Was it something you learnt as you got older or something
you’ve always known?
It's a bit of both really. I had small crushes on other girls when I was
younger but I wasn't bothered about it. I was about ten when I started
questioning and then a year later I realised properly.
4.
Are there ever times that you
find it difficult to accept your feelings towards other people? Does society
ever make you feel pressured into acting and behaving a certain way?
There have been times where I've thought
being straight would be easier but I've been raised so that I know that
homosexuality isn't wrong so I just accepted myself.
5.
Have you ever experienced discrimination
or prejudice based on your sexuality? Do you think that it’s because we live in
a society where straight people are favoured that people think it’s acceptable
to belittle people who don’t fall into this category?
I have faced discrimination from people who see it as a
joke. Like when someone asked me if I had a girlfriend in a very mocking tone
to make fun out of me. I've also heard some girls say that they don't want me
to have a crush on them.
6.
How does it make you feel to
know that in some parts of the world, it’s still illegal to marry as a same sex
couple?
I think it's very upsetting to be honest that people are
still against it but hopefully there's going to a rise in the future of people
supporting same sex marriage, especially for Australia!
7.
Is there anybody who has helped
you in any way that deserves any recognition? Whether that be simply being a
friend who has stood up for you or a public figure who has fought for your
rights?
Well, I look up to celebrities like Ellen Page because I find it amazing that they're proud of who they are and they stick up for lgbt rights in America.
8.
Finally, do you have any advice
to give to anybody reading who is either questioning their sexual preference or
considering ‘coming out’?
Well, for someone who's questioning their sexual orientation, my advice would be just to wait, be patient and be proud of themselves no matter what and for anyone who's thinking of coming out, make sure you're in a safe place and your parents are accepting. If not, maybe move in with an accepting friend or extended family if you feel you are in danger or wait until you move out.
Again, thank you so much for giving me this opportunity Ella, I wish you all the best! :)
Health and happiness,
Marti xxx
